People have me confused. You can read that in several ways but for now let’s just take it as most people think I am something I’m not.
I was painfully shy in grade school. So much so that my parents worried about my socialization skills. They pushed me, encouraged me to put myself “out there” which being the obedient, wanting to please child that I was I complied. I joined clubs, ran for office, went to dances all the while feeling like I didn’t really belong and was a bit of an imposter.
All that practice in school – putting myself “out there” has been helpful as an adult. Most people would describe me as extroverted. But in the privacy of my own heart I’d rather be by myself. It’s simple – I NEED to be alone to regenerate my physical energy and stimulate my thinking.
I’m an introvert. Susan Cain will explain it in this excellent TedTalk:
Watch it even if you are an extrovert it will help explain most of your friends or family members!